Episode 71: Why Going Viral Is Overrated (& What Actually Grows Your Business on Social Media + Beyond) with Kristina Bartold

75K Followers and Cannot Sell a $15 T-Shirt: Why Community Beats Virality Every Time (with Kristina Bartold)

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What if going viral would actually hurt your business more than help it?

That is the hot take my guest Kristina Bartold brought to this conversation, and honestly, it is one of the most refreshing things I have heard in a long time.

Kristina is the founder of The Social Snippet, a social media agency that also produces podcasts. She runs the High Vibe Women community for female entrepreneurs, hosts the Community podcast, and coaches inside Lori and Chris Harder's mastermind. She built a seven-figure agency in three years, and she did it without going viral. She did it through relationships.

In this episode of Podcast Growth Tools, we dive into why chasing virality is a trap for most entrepreneurs, what actually drives revenue on social media, how to build a community that buys everything you sell, how she grew her membership from 35 stuck members to over 100 by pivoting the offer, and the real ways podcasters can promote their shows on social without burning out.

This was one of my favorite interviews I have done in a long time. If you have ever caught yourself wishing for a viral moment to change your business, this conversation is going to shift your perspective entirely.


Here's a glance to the episode:

  • Why Kristina refers people elsewhere when they come to her wanting virality

  • The story of a client with 75,000 followers who could not sell a $15 product, and what that teaches us about audience vs. community

  • How Kristina built a seven-figure agency in three years through relationships, not followers

  • Why she did over 100 free Instagram audits and how that became her secret growth strategy

  • The one time she went viral and why she never wants to do it again

  • How to build a community that is ready to buy every single time you sell something

  • What actually works for promoting your podcast on social media right now (banger reels, carousels, ManyChat, and more)

  • Why she sent one email and sold out her next event

  • How she grew her membership from 35 members to 100+ by pivoting the offer and doubling the price

  • Why you cannot outwork a bad offer and how to know when it is time to pivot

  • Her advice on hiring early, outsourcing your weaknesses, and building a team that is better than you

  • Why podcasting is the best networking tool and authority builder available to entrepreneurs

Timestamps:

  • 04:02: How Kristina balances a seven-figure agency, a community, a podcast, and motherhood

  • 05:05: Her first hire and why she outsourced before she was financially ready

  • 07:00: The truth about going viral: why Kristina refers virality-seekers elsewhere

  • 08:30: 75K followers and cannot sell a $15 product: audience vs. community

  • 09:50: How she sent one email and sold out her event

  • 10:30: The time she went viral and why she walked away from it

  • 11:10: How to build a community that buys everything you sell

  • 13:05: Why she did 100+ free Instagram audits and how it became her growth engine

  • 14:50: The power of conversations and market research

  • 16:20: Why getting in front of other audiences is the fastest path to growth

  • 17:07: How she built High Vibe Women from casual dinners to 200+ person events

  • 19:20: How long she has been podcasting and why she almost gave up

  • 20:20: How her podcast downloads doubled after fixing her episode titles

  • 21:45: What actually works for promoting your podcast on social media

  • 24:40: LinkedIn, Facebook, Threads: which platforms are worth your time

  • 27:00: How she uses speaking events and podcast episodes together for maximum impact

  • 28:58: The story behind High Vibe Women and what makes it different

  • 32:00: How she pivoted from a $37 membership to a community with 100+ members at double the price

  • 34:00: Why you cannot outwork a bad offer

  • 35:00: Closing thoughts on relationships, community, and showing up


If You're Asking These Questions, You're in the Right Place:

  • Is going viral actually worth it for my business?

  • How do I build a community on social media that actually buys from me?

  • What is the best way to promote my podcast on Instagram?

  • How do I grow my business through relationships instead of followers?

  • How do I know when my offer needs to change?

  • Is it worth being on LinkedIn, Threads, or Facebook as a podcaster?

  • How do I use my podcast for networking and building authority?

  • When should I start outsourcing and hiring help?


Why Going Viral Is Overrated (and Potentially Harmful)

Kristina does not mince words on this one. When clients come to her agency wanting virality, she refers them elsewhere. Not because she cannot help them chase it, but because she has seen what happens on the other side.

She has worked with over 250 to 300 businesses in five years. And one pattern she keeps seeing is people with very large audiences who cannot sell anything. She shared the example of multiple clients with 75,000+ followers who could not move a $15 t-shirt. The reason is simple: they have an audience, but they do not have a community. There is no relationship, no trust, no reason for people to buy.

Kristina herself went viral once. It was a video about having a clear Instagram feed, and she stood by the content. But the response was brutal. Negative comments, hate, people attacking her perspective. She walked away from it and went right back to her engaged community of people who actually buy from her.

Her take: she could have 8,000 followers for the rest of her days and be completely fine with that, as long as those people buy every time she goes to sell something. And they do. She sent one email about a brunch event and sold out more than half of the seats. A few Instagram stories later, it was completely sold out. That is the power of community over audience size.


How to Build a Community That Buys Everything You Sell

Kristina's approach to community building comes back to one thing: relationships and conversations.

When she started The Social Snippet, she had no background in running an agency. She had a master's degree in leadership and, as she puts it, no business being in business. But she did something most people skip: she had over 100 conversations with potential clients. She offered free Instagram audits, spending about 30 minutes per person, and learned exactly what her audience was struggling with.

Those conversations taught her what to build. They told her what language her audience was using, what they were confused about, what they needed. And at the end of almost every audit, people would ask how they could keep working with her.

Even more powerful, those conversations built a referral network that still sends her clients four years later. People who never became clients themselves have introduced her to others who did.

Her advice for anyone listening: you do not need to do 100 conversations. Start with 5 to 10. Get on Zoom, send voice messages on Instagram, ask real questions, and listen to the answers. This is how you build offers people actually want, content that resonates, and a community that trusts you enough to buy.


What Actually Works for Promoting Your Podcast on Social Media

Kristina shared several strategies that are working right now for promoting podcasts on Instagram and beyond.

Banger reels. These are mashup-style clips from your conversation, edited to create a little FOMO without giving everything away. Think of the Diary of a CEO style. Pair it with a ManyChat trigger so people can comment a word and get the episode link directly.

Carousels. Carousels keep people in the app, which the algorithm rewards. Pull three to five key takeaways from your episode, design a carousel, and pair it with a ManyChat trigger. Bonus: carousels are highly shareable.

Instagram Stories. Kristina admitted she under-promotes her podcast on Stories, but when she does show up and talk about an episode, it drives results. Sometimes the simplest approach works best.

Trend-based content. Find a trending format or audio and tie your podcast topic into it. This takes more creative energy, but it can introduce your show to people who would never have found it otherwise.

Threads. Kristina loves Threads for podcast promotion. She answers questions people are asking and links to her episodes as the resource. It is lower effort, feels more genuine, and has been surprisingly effective.

Speaking events paired with podcast episodes. This is a strategy worth noting. Whenever Kristina speaks at an event, she records a podcast episode on the same topic and drops it on the day of the event. That episode becomes her call to action from the stage, which drives immediate downloads and new subscribers.


Why She Doubled Her Membership Price and Got Four Times the Members

One of the most honest parts of this conversation was Kristina's story about pivoting her membership.

She had a membership called the Social Business Club. $37 per month. 35 members. For two years, they could not scale it. They were providing templates, trending sounds, weekly calls, and doing the absolute most for that price. But people were not converting at the rate they needed.

She was ready to shut it down and declare that memberships are dead.

Then her business partner Maria suggested converting it into a High Vibe Women membership. Kristina resisted at first because of the sunk cost fallacy. They had put so much work into the Social Business Club. But they made the pivot, relaunched at double the price, and now have over 100 members and growing every day.

The lesson she shared: you cannot outwork a bad offer. If people do not want what you are selling and you have tried everything, it is okay to pivot. The offer just was not a match. That does not mean memberships are dead. It means that specific membership was not the right fit for her audience at that price point.


Why Podcasting Is the Ultimate Networking and Authority Tool

Kristina has been podcasting for nearly four years. She has never missed a week. And she has had plenty of moments where she questioned whether it was worth it, especially because she likes fast results and podcasting is inherently a long game.

But here is what she has realized: her podcast provides more authority and opportunity than almost anything else she does. It gets her invited to speak on stages. It serves as a coaching resource she can send to clients. It creates relationships with guests she never would have connected with otherwise. And her downloads doubled last year after she got intentional about episode titles, which is a shift many podcasters can relate to.

Her perspective on download numbers is worth hearing. She is not chasing thousands of downloads per episode. She is focused on whether the people who listen are the right people. 40 downloads is 40 people in a room. If she sold 40 of her offer, she would feel great. That reframe changes everything about how you measure success as a podcaster.


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    Kylee Chandler: Ugh.

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    Kylee Chandler: I wish I could go viral.

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    Kylee Chandler: I have a very interesting hot take for you today with my guest, Kristina Barthold.

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    Kylee Chandler: And she said the most interesting thing.

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    Kylee Chandler: So for those of you who don't know Kristina, she is amazing.

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    Kylee Chandler: So she, like I said, she runs the Social Snippet social media agency.

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    Kylee Chandler: She runs a community for women called the High Vibe Women Community.

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    Kylee Chandler: And she also has a podcast called Community, which is such a phenomenal podcast.

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    Kylee Chandler: of the things.

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    Kylee Chandler: Kristina, welcome to the show.

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    Kylee Chandler: I have been so excited to chat with you.

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    Kristina Barthold: Oh my gosh, I'm so excited.

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    Kristina Barthold: And it's always such a gift when I get to be on podcasts that I listen to.

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    Kristina Barthold: So I'm honored to be here.

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    Kylee Chandler: Wow. Well, that's a huge, huge compliment to me that I make your playlist. So thank you.

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    Kylee Chandler: Okay. So we were just chatting a little bit offline and, and I was saying how,

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    Kylee Chandler: I had a hard time even choosing like one angle to take this because you are such an expert

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    Kylee Chandler: on so many things.

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    Kylee Chandler: So we're going to dive in.

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    Kylee Chandler: We're going to see where this conversation goes, but...

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    Kylee Chandler: I know that all my listeners are just going to walk away with so much value.

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    Kylee Chandler: So I think...

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    Kylee Chandler: maybe selfishly a little bit.

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    Kylee Chandler: What I wanna know, and what I think is a juicy place

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    Kylee Chandler: to start is,

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    Kylee Chandler: You built a seven-figure business.

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    Kylee Chandler: You have a community.

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    Kylee Chandler: You have an agency.

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    Kylee Chandler: Not to mention you're a mama of a little one.

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    Kylee Chandler: It's a lot to carry.

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    Kylee Chandler: So like what is behind the scenes?

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    Kylee Chandler: look like for Kristina in terms of like,

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    Kylee Chandler: working and getting things done, but taking time for the family too.

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    Kristina Barthold: Yeah. Well, I will say, you know, just to be honest, it's always a balance and like something

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    Kristina Barthold: that I've always struggled with is like the work-life balance element of it all. Like you

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    Kristina Barthold: mentioned, I'm a new mom. So we were just jamming out on that about, you know, it's really tough to

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    Kristina Barthold: find the balance of,

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    Kristina Barthold: being a mom when you love your work so much and you love your baby and you're trying to figure out

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    Kristina Barthold: kind of all the pieces of it that's so much um but I've been really blessed in the sense of uh I've

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    Kristina Barthold: always seen the vision for the social snippet which is my agency to have a team and so we've

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    Kristina Barthold: always had a really high performing amazing team amazing staff people who really like I always hire

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    Kristina Barthold: people who are better than me like I'm under no impression that I am the best at anything

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    Kristina Barthold: I always hire smarter um sometimes cooler and funnier people than me and uh they do great work

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    Kristina Barthold: So I, I have really been leaning into outsourcing over the years and, um, finding the right people

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    Kristina Barthold: and even sometimes outsourcing before we were ready financially, um, knowing and really trusting

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    Kristina Barthold: that we needed the help and we needed the support. Um, so that's been, that's been really kind of key.

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    Kristina Barthold: And even, you know, I think we're in such an exciting age where we can leverage things like AI and

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    Kristina Barthold: there's like really cool things that we're able to do that we haven't been able to do before, but I take

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    Kristina Barthold: I take all the help I can get. My husband's mostly a stay at home dad, like really like lots of stuff's

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    Kristina Barthold: happening behind the scenes in my like family life to make all of this possible, which I know isn't the case for all people.

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    Kylee Chandler: Right. Okay. So, uh,

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    Kylee Chandler: I'm curious, who is your first hire?

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    Kylee Chandler: besides you and Maria.

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    Yeah.

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    Kylee Chandler: So you know what?

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    Kylee Chandler: It's funny.

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    Kylee Chandler: When we started the social snippet almost five years ago,

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    Kristina Barthold: we were just a social media agency.

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    Kristina Barthold: Now we do podcasts as well.

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    Kristina Barthold: And we very early on,

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    Kristina Barthold: were believers that we did not

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    Kylee Chandler: need to do everything. Like we, we it's, it's almost like we skipped the super scrappy phase

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    Kylee Chandler: where people are like, you know, you read the books, you do the thing and you're in the work.

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    Kylee Chandler: And it's actually when I coach people, what I tell them to do where I'm like, you know,

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    Kylee Chandler: do the thing until you can't do the thing, like move on to them, you know, build it up,

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    Kylee Chandler: build it up. And so really early on, probably like a month or two into business, we hired

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    Kristina Barthold: someone we knew to be a little bit of like, not like an assistant, but like to do some

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    Kristina Barthold: like social media graphics. And, you know, now I think back on it, we really overpaid her for

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    Kristina Barthold: work, which now I'm kind of like, we just were like desperate for the help. We had no idea,

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    Kristina Barthold: like we had never worked in an agency setting. So really we built our agency from absolute like,

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    Kristina Barthold: you know, vision. So which has been absolutely incredible. But I would say if for an entrepreneur

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    Kristina Barthold: who's listening, when they're figuring out what to outsource, I think it's really just looking at

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    Kristina Barthold: the stuff that is not your zone of genius and leaning in there and being like, okay, I know

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    Kristina Barthold: that that's not where I'm best. Like,

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    Kristina Barthold: For me, I'm not super type A.

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    Kristina Barthold: So admin work is like actually kind of hard for me and it takes a long time to get done.

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    Kristina Barthold: So like we have an amazing bookkeeping team.

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    Kristina Barthold: We have like an awesome admin assistant.

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    Kristina Barthold: Like I have a right hand, like all of these, all of these things have been really important.

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    Kristina Barthold: So that's where I would start is like looking at what's taking up brain space.

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    Kristina Barthold: And I always look at it like how much money can I make with that kind of time?

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    Kristina Barthold: Like, you know, how much money can I make if I'm not spending, you know, three hours

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    Kristina Barthold: trying to learn Claude myself and, you know, I have someone on my team can do it and they

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    Kristina Barthold: can report back and, and, and kind of help me think differently.

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    Kylee Chandler: So good. And I love that you, that's such a good point. And it's true that not only finding somebody

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    Kylee Chandler: who can do that and then a report back, but then using AI is kind of like your assistant in all of

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    Kylee Chandler: it is just can be such a beautiful way. And I love that we are moving more into like using AI for the

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    Kylee Chandler: business aspect, not just copy and content piece, which it serves great for a few things, but, um,

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    Kylee Chandler: I love that. So I'm really glad you brought up the social snippet right away because I want to

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    Kylee Chandler: talk about going viral and...

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    Kylee Chandler: you work with like I've done consulting and so you have people come to you and they're like I want to

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    Kylee Chandler: go viral and so like how do you how do you toe the line with them and just be like this is this is the

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    Kylee Chandler: route that we can go but what

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    Kylee Chandler: let's see, where do I want to go with this? Like, how, how do you go viral? How realistically is it

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    Kylee Chandler: to go viral? Or is it,

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    Kylee Chandler: Is it even serving us to go viral?

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    Kristina Barthold: Yeah, this is actually one of my hot topic issues, Kylie.

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    Kristina Barthold: I don't know if you know this about me, but it's a hot topic issue because...

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    Kristina Barthold: I am just such a big believer of, you know, can virality do a lot for your business? Yes. I've actually seen virality blow people's businesses up, right? Where they, an influencer uses something in the right way and then people rally around something or like I've seen, I've seen it used. It's very rare.

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    Kristina Barthold: And you need to have extreme tenacity and consistency to see that.

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    Kristina Barthold: Like, so it's posting multiple times a day.

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    Kristina Barthold: It's testing.

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    Kristina Barthold: It's getting the negative comments.

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    Kristina Barthold: It's getting the hate.

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    Kristina Barthold: It's doing all of those things.

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    Kristina Barthold: For me, you know, we work with over 80 clients.

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    Kristina Barthold: And so I've worked with probably, I would say in five years, I've probably worked with

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    Kristina Barthold: 250, 300 businesses, nevermind all the people that we've coached in a number of women.

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    Kristina Barthold: So I've seen people try different things on social, obviously, right?

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    Kristina Barthold: And one of the things that comes to mind for me is multiple times we've had people with

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    Kristina Barthold: very large audiences come to us trying to sell products.

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    Kristina Barthold: Low, um...

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    Kristina Barthold: what's the word I'm looking for?

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    Kristina Barthold: Like product,

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    Kristina Barthold: low ticket.

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    Kristina Barthold: Yes.

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    Kristina Barthold: I was like low income.

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    Kristina Barthold: That's not what I'm looking for.

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    Kristina Barthold: Um,

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    Kristina Barthold: a low to him on brain over here.

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    Kristina Barthold: Um,

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    Kristina Barthold: a low ticket products,

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    Kristina Barthold: And they're not even able to sell a $15 t-shirt.

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    Kristina Barthold: Like they have 75,000 followers.

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    Kristina Barthold: They can't sell a $20 product.

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    Kristina Barthold: Why?

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    Kristina Barthold: Because they don't have a community.

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    Kristina Barthold: And so what they have is audience or they have people, but they don't actually have a community of people who are ready to buy. And I'm in the business of business. So I'm in the business of money in the bank. So for me, it's like, I actually don't care. I could have 8,000 followers for the rest of my days.

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    Kristina Barthold: Should your followers grow as you're posting?

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    Kristina Barthold: Yes, your community should grow.

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    Kristina Barthold: But I don't need to have, I don't aspire for 100,000.

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    Kristina Barthold: I actually just aspire to have people who buy every single time I go to sell something.

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    Kristina Barthold: So for example, you know, with my High By Women brand, we're selling a brunch.

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    Kristina Barthold: We've sent out one email that basically sold more than half of it.

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    Kristina Barthold: We posted a few Instagram stories.

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    Kristina Barthold: Today we're sold out.

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    Kristina Barthold: How that works?

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    Kristina Barthold: It's community.

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    Kristina Barthold: People are buying from me.

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    Kristina Barthold: Like, it's not about the fact that we have a massive audience.

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    Kristina Barthold: It's people are waiting to buy.

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    Kristina Barthold: And so I really think that, you know, I did go viral one time and we, I'll tell the story

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    Kristina Barthold: really quickly because it's actually kind of funny, but yeah.

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    Kristina Barthold: I went viral on a video that said

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    Kristina Barthold: It was about having a very clear Instagram.

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    Kristina Barthold: I still stand by it.

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    Kristina Barthold: It said,

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    Kristina Barthold: Um, if you are not a chef, you shouldn't have passed on your feed.

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    Kristina Barthold: And the whole concept behind it was kind of like, people should know what you sell when

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    Kristina Barthold: they go on your feed.

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    Kristina Barthold: Um,

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    Kristina Barthold: And people ripped me.

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    Kristina Barthold: Like, they were like, how dare you tell me what to post?

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    Kristina Barthold: Like, it was like way worse than that.

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    Kristina Barthold: And I was like, oh, I'm just like not really interested in this type of life.

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    Kristina Barthold: And I'm back to being like, you know, back to my people over here who always buy for me and who are excited.

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    Kristina Barthold: So I think you need to have that thick skin with virality.

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    Kristina Barthold: And I do get people who want big metrics.

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    Kristina Barthold: And honestly, I will tell you, typically when people come to us and they're like, I want virality.

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    Kristina Barthold: Yeah.

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    Kristina Barthold: I refer them elsewhere.

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    Yeah.

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    Kylee Chandler: Oh, good for you.

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    Kylee Chandler: Okay.

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    Kylee Chandler: I want to dive down this rabbit hole a little bit with building a community, nurturing them,

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    Kylee Chandler: I am so in agreement with you that even if you have a massive email list, but they don't buy,

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    Kylee Chandler: what is it doing for you? So a smaller email list that's more engaged who you can send on

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    Kylee Chandler: email and sell to is so, so valuable. And then I have my, you know, my women who are my masterminds

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    Kylee Chandler: and my clients who are like, well, my podcast isn't hitting these numbers. And I said,

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    Kylee Chandler: But if you were to sell to that smaller amount of downloads or followers, would they buy?

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    Kylee Chandler: And if the answer is yes...

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    Kylee Chandler: we're doing the right thing.

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    Kylee Chandler: Yes, totally.

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    Kylee Chandler: Social, podcast, news, same thing.

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    Kylee Chandler: But what I want to know is like,

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    Kylee Chandler: okay, how do we build that really juicy community? Who's like, whatever you saw, I'm here for.

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    Kristina Barthold: Yeah. I think my experience of it and seeing people do it, right? Like there's just so many

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    Kristina Barthold: ways, but really when I think about like the ultimate way it's building relationships with

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    Kristina Barthold: with the people who are in your,

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    Kristina Barthold: in your network.

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    Kristina Barthold: And so whether that's on LinkedIn or on Instagram or on a podcast,

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    Kristina Barthold: like the thing I love the most about podcasting,

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    Kristina Barthold: because I imagine lots of people listening are podcasters.

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    Kristina Barthold: Like I,

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    Kristina Barthold: I love podcasting for the intimacy of it.

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    Kristina Barthold: Like, right?

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    Kristina Barthold: So when people come to me and they're like, I've got 40 downloads, I'm like...

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    Kristina Barthold: How are those people going to be VIP for you?

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    Kristina Barthold: Like, how do you treat those people?

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    Kristina Barthold: Like, those are 40 people in a room that they paid to be there.

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    Kristina Barthold: Like, you know, and it's, people are so like, oh, it's only 40.

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    Kristina Barthold: Oh, it's only 80.

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    Kristina Barthold: And I'm like, so if you sold 80 of your offer, how would you feel?

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    Kristina Barthold: Like, if you sold 40 of your offer, how would you feel?

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    Kristina Barthold: Probably great.

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    Kristina Barthold: You're probably only looking to sell 10.

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    Kristina Barthold: So that's a great opportunity.

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    Kristina Barthold: And I even think about this with my retreats.

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    Kristina Barthold: Like, I run retreats or, you know...

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    Kristina Barthold: Mid ticket, I would say.

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    Kristina Barthold: And every single time I do a podcast episode being like, here's what's happening at the

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    Kristina Barthold: retreat.

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    Kristina Barthold: Here's what happened at the last one.

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    Kristina Barthold: Here are the takeaways.

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    Kristina Barthold: They always sell seats.

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    Kristina Barthold: Always. I can always see an uptick. Right. And so I think it's really like, when I think about how do

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    Kristina Barthold: you build a community, it's really engaging with your people and having conversations and serving

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    Kristina Barthold: them. And when people, when you serve them, like, you know, through a podcast or social,

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    Kristina Barthold: whatever that looks like, then people are really like indebted to you and not in a manipulative

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    Kristina Barthold: way, but in a, wow, like there are people, like I think about Chris and Lori Harder.

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    Kristina Barthold: I coached in their mastermind. I've been in their role for a few years. The way that I got into that

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    Kristina Barthold: was I listened to Chris's podcast and I had this mental block on running a business because I was

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    Kristina Barthold: like, oh, when you have lots of money, that means you can't be generous. Like when you have lots of

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    Kristina Barthold: that means like you're a different kind of person. And I was like, wow, like if I was like an entrepreneur,

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    Kristina Barthold: I think I'd be someone who like love generosity. And I think I'd be somebody who really want to serve

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    Kristina Barthold: and like, I wouldn't lose myself in that. And seeing that they didn't and seeing the way they talked

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    Kristina Barthold: about it really inspired me to think differently. And so I think you have this opportunity to actually

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    Kristina Barthold: really inspire people, but also encourage them and love on them and get market research from them

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    Kristina Barthold: and then build your offers around these people who are part of, you know, your, your come up.

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    Kristina Barthold: And so, I mean, tactically there's so many ways, whether that be serving them in an email,

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    Kristina Barthold: serving them on a podcast, serving them with a quiz on social, like there's just so many ways you can

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    Kristina Barthold: you can do it, but really what it is, is about relationship and building offers for your people.

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    Kylee Chandler: Ugh.

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    Kylee Chandler: I couldn't agree more.

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    Kylee Chandler: So...

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    Kylee Chandler: How do you feel?

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    Kylee Chandler: that you have

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    Kylee Chandler: honed in on offers that are perfect for your audience. Like what steps did you take to really

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    Kylee Chandler: make sure that this is the offer that they need?

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    Kristina Barthold: So many conversations, Kylie.

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    Kristina Barthold: So many.

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    Kristina Barthold: Like, so on the social snippet side, really the way it kind of went down was that we were

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    Kristina Barthold: in a mastermind and I was like, okay, like, I don't know anything about really about entrepreneurs.

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    Kristina Barthold: I know lots about social, but like, I've never sold...

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    Kristina Barthold: social media. And so we run this mastermind and I did a,

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    Kristina Barthold: audit on like almost a hundred people's Instagrams. Like I would go through it for

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    Kristina Barthold: free half an hour. And at the end, people would always ask, they'd be like, what,

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    Kristina Barthold: Oh my goodness.

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    Kristina Barthold: Like I could not,

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    Kristina Barthold: by the way,

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    Kristina Barthold: guys listening,

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    Kristina Barthold: I could not do that in this season of life.

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    Kristina Barthold: Like that was a season where I had more time,

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    Kristina Barthold: but yeah,

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    Kristina Barthold: I did a hundred, I think 110 or something.

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    Kristina Barthold: And I would give a bunch of feedback.

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    Kristina Barthold: And at the end, people would always ask like,

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    Kristina Barthold: how do I work with you?

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    Kristina Barthold: Like, you know, how do I stay connected with you?

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    Kristina Barthold: Like it was very positive.

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    Kristina Barthold: And why I like really leveraged that and why I actually think that was like the secret sauce

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    Kristina Barthold: was I actually was talking to my ideal clients and learning about what their woes were, right?

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    Kristina Barthold: I was hearing them be like, you know, putting stuff on Instagram.

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    Kristina Barthold: And I was like, none of you know at this time how to use hashtags.

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    Kristina Barthold: Like, it's crazy.

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    Kristina Barthold: All of you guys are using hashtags wrong.

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    Kristina Barthold: So my resources started to come about hashtags.

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    Kristina Barthold: Or at the time, like when, you know, pinned posts started, when reels were getting started,

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    Kristina Barthold: these things were things people didn't really understand how to leverage.

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    Kristina Barthold: But my social media brain and my gift was able to, you know, take that and be like,

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    Kristina Barthold: okay, this is actually how you do it,

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    Kristina Barthold: and this is how you do it in your context.

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    Kristina Barthold: So I was able to really learn from them.

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    Kristina Barthold: So I think, you know, someone listening,

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    Kristina Barthold: it doesn't have to be a hundred,

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    Kristina Barthold: it could be 10,

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    Kristina Barthold: it can be five,

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    Kristina Barthold: but having conversations with people and actually learning from them,

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    Kristina Barthold: like what it is that they're looking for,

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    Kristina Barthold: because it,

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    Kristina Barthold: Too often, and I know you probably see this more than I do,

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    Kristina Barthold: So many people, they create offers and they're for the wrong people.

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    Kristina Barthold: Or like, I know somebody who...

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    Kristina Barthold: She was like, it was like a time management kind of offer.

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    Kristina Barthold: And she was like, oh my gosh, Kristina, I made this 50-page guide.

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    Kristina Barthold: And I was like 50 page guide for someone who has trouble time management.

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    Kristina Barthold: Like that's just not a, that's not a fit.

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    Kristina Barthold: And so when we hear from the people, hey, actually it'd be really helpful if I had a

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    Kristina Barthold: quick offer of like a hashtag bank at the time, or, you know, it'd be really helpful

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    Kristina Barthold: right now.

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    Kristina Barthold: It's like, I listened to that and I listened for podcast episodes.

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    Kristina Barthold: And then that's a great way for me to convert my, like, you know, kind of cold audience

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    Kristina Barthold: to warmer audience, because I'm telling them like anything they want to know.

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    Kristina Barthold: I'm not gatekeeping anything.

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    Kristina Barthold: So the long and short of it really is just relationships and conversations, which people

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    Kristina Barthold: don't do enough because they're looking for quick results.

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    Kristina Barthold: And that's unfortunately the slow way to do it.

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    Kylee Chandler: Oh my gosh, Kristina, I just love you even more and more because these are the things

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    Kylee Chandler: I tell my audience.

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    Kylee Chandler: I'm like literally in my mastermind, I'm like...

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    Kylee Chandler: Go out, have three to five, three to five conversations, conversations.

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    Kylee Chandler: I'm not talking text.

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    Kylee Chandler: I'm not talking in a conversation with chat daddy or Claude.

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    Kylee Chandler: Like,

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    Kylee Chandler: actual conversations get on the zoom or voice message or whatever, but we need to hear the

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    Kylee Chandler: words they are saying. Yeah. So then we can create offers and podcast episodes and marketing material.

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    Kylee Chandler: And it's so validating because when my clients are like, well, I did it. And oh my gosh,

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    Kylee Chandler: like I had no idea, you know? And it's like, this is yes. Take the time. And we're not talking like

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    Kylee Chandler: 100 conversations. I mean, if you can have the, if you have something that can give you that great,

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    Kylee Chandler: but the other thing that I always say, and Kristina, we've DMed in on Instagram is like

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    Kylee Chandler: the voice message on Instagram can be such a great way to get into easy dialogue with your

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    Kylee Chandler: ideal customers without saying, let's set up a zoom, you know? So it's like,

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    Kylee Chandler: Yes, everything you said.

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    Kristina Barthold: And also Kylie, sorry not to blame me, but I was just going to say the other piece too is like, obviously my business, like we grew to seven figures in annual revenue in three years. And so from nothing, like I always say, I'm like, I have a master's degree in leadership. I have no reason to be in business. Like it's like, like no business being in business, but.

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    Kristina Barthold: Why I tell you this is because we did a lot of that through relationship and a lot of those audits, what those turned into were clients.

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    Kristina Barthold: And even more than that, what it turned into was a really incredible referral network.

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    Kristina Barthold: And that's how our community got started was where people would be like, well, I actually

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    Kristina Barthold: don't need social media help.

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    Kristina Barthold: But, you know, two years later, they'll introduce me to someone else.

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    Kristina Barthold: I still, it's been five, four years since I was in that mastermind.

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    Kristina Barthold: I still get referrals from it.

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    Kristina Barthold: Still, like to this day.

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    Kristina Barthold: So you never know where these conversations can lead.

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    Kristina Barthold: And so I'm just encouraging people to have a really open-minded heart to that.

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    Kristina Barthold: And also just by serving people, it's always incredible what can kind of come of it.

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    Kylee Chandler: Oh, yes, yes.

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    Kylee Chandler: Okay, these types of conversations get me so excited

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    Kylee Chandler: because in this day and age where we can just, you know, huddle up in our dusk,

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    Kylee Chandler: in our own room and talk to AI.

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    Kylee Chandler: Even when people are talking about wanting to grow their podcasts, I'm like going on other podcasts, getting in front of other communities. How can you serve other communities and just be in relationship with other entrepreneurs?

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    Kylee Chandler: that's how we build our business. And so I am so, and you guys are, you are so amazing at that.

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    Kristina Barthold: So thank you. Well, it's also, I think, you know, a lot of ways like

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    Kristina Barthold: It's a learned skill and it's a muscle flex, right?

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    Kristina Barthold: Like it's something you need to, you don't need to go to a hundred events in a year.

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    Kristina Barthold: I did it one year.

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    Kristina Barthold: Like it wasn't a hundred, but it was like, it must've been 70.

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    Kristina Barthold: Like, and it was incredible.

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    Kristina Barthold: And I learned a ton and we spent a ton of money and did our revenue doubled that year.

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    Kristina Barthold: And like, there were some wins, but yeah.

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    Kristina Barthold: That wasn't a sustainable way to do it.

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    Kristina Barthold: I knew the minute that I got pregnant, I was like, I can actually never do it like that again.

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    Kristina Barthold: And so I know motherhood in business is a different thing.

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    Kristina Barthold: And so I really just like, yeah, find your ways of doing it and being in a relationship.

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    Kristina Barthold: And it doesn't have to be an expensive mastermind.

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    Kristina Barthold: It doesn't have to be anything like that.

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    Kristina Barthold: It can be the coffee with somebody from your chamber of commerce.

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    Kristina Barthold: And that can absolutely change your perspective.

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    Kristina Barthold: Yeah.

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    Kristina Barthold: Yeah, there's lots of opportunity to build community.

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    Kylee Chandler: So good.

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    Kylee Chandler: I love that.

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    Kylee Chandler: Okay.

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    Kylee Chandler: So let's talk a little bit.

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    Kylee Chandler: So I want to talk about the podcast and some of your podcast guidance, but then I also

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    Kylee Chandler: want to talk about your membership.

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    Kylee Chandler: as well, high vibe.

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    Kylee Chandler: I've had women. And so let's start with the podcast. How long have you had it? And tell

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    Kylee Chandler: me about what that journey has been like for you.

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    Kristina Barthold: Yeah, so I think it's coming up on four years this July.

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    Kristina Barthold: And so it's been a bit of a journey.

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    Kristina Barthold: And, you know, it's one of those things where...

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    Kristina Barthold: It is something that would naturally,

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    Kristina Barthold: I think naturally comes naturally to me in a sense of like talking,

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    Kristina Barthold: like,

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    Kristina Barthold: cause like I love to do it and I love to listen and I love to,

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    Kristina Barthold: you know,

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    Kristina Barthold: I ask questions and that's always been part of my personality.

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    Kristina Barthold: Um,

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    Kristina Barthold: But...

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    Kristina Barthold: I am somebody who likes fast results with things and podcasting is one of those things

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    Kristina Barthold: that grows over time.

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    Kristina Barthold: And so that there have been many times I've never missed a week, but there have been so

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    Kristina Barthold: many times where I've been like, is this like bang for my buck?

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    Kristina Barthold: And really what I've realized has been how incredible it's been like one, two, three,

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    Kristina Barthold: It provides like the most amount of like authority opportunity that I like always don't even realize.

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    Kristina Barthold: Like I get the opportunity to speak on a lot of stages and do that kind of stuff.

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    Kristina Barthold: And that feels so obvious, right?

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    Kristina Barthold: Like, oh yeah, like I get to speak to a hundred people.

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    Kristina Barthold: Like this is awesome.

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    Kristina Barthold: Or I run two, 200 person events.

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    Kristina Barthold: Like that's, people know what I do.

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    Kristina Barthold: Like this is great.

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    Kristina Barthold: But like that consistency, like the amount of times people tell me like I wait for this every week.

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    Kristina Barthold: Like I'm like so excited to listen to this.

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    Kristina Barthold: This has changed my perspective on something.

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    Kristina Barthold: Oh my, or I use it as a resource with coaching.

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    Kristina Barthold: Like there's just so many ways.

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    Kristina Barthold: So it's been really, really incredible.

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    Kristina Barthold: But I will say something that like, I just, for those of you listening, if you're like,

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    Kristina Barthold: oh, I haven't cracked it yet.

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    Kristina Barthold: Or like, you know, it does take time.

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    Kristina Barthold: My podcast downloads doubled last year because we got really tight with our titles and stuff

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    Kristina Barthold: like that, which was great.

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    Kristina Barthold: But at the same time, like, it's like, I'm like, you know, I'm not doing thousands and

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    Kristina Barthold: thousands and thousands of downloads every time.

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    Kristina Barthold: Right.

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    Kristina Barthold: So, um, I think there's obviously like, I see lots of room for it to continue to grow.

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    Kristina Barthold: Um, but it's been just such a gift and the ultimate networking hat, which I'm sure Kylie,

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    Kristina Barthold: you, you can appreciate as well.

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    Kristina Barthold: So you get on with people who like, you maybe never would have had the opportunity to, or, um,

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    Kristina Barthold: you get to have really fun conversations like this.

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    Kristina Barthold: And then you have no idea where these things lead.

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    Kristina Barthold: So yeah, it's been an amazing journey.

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    Kristina Barthold: So yeah, it's been an amazing journey.

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    Kylee Chandler: Oh, I couldn't agree more. I think it is such a fun way to just, and like doing podcast swaps is

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    Kylee Chandler: such a great way to just like, again, start on Instagram with a DM chat back and forth a little

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    Kylee Chandler: bit and be like, Hey, you want to do a podcast up? And then before you know it, now you have another

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    Kylee Chandler: person that not only you get to support them and their business, but then vice versa. So I love it.

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    Kylee Chandler: What would you say? Um,

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    Kylee Chandler: has been some of, when somebody comes to you and they're like,

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    Kylee Chandler: how do I grow my podcast? What do you tell them?

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    Kylee Chandler: I'm so curious.

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    Kristina Barthold: Yeah.

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    Kristina Barthold: Oh my goodness.

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    Kristina Barthold: I feel like I'm like Steve jobs is asking me like a question about,

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    Kristina Barthold: um,

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    Kylee Chandler: I know that you are brilliant at this and I have, so let's do it.

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    Kristina Barthold: Yeah. So for me, it's like the, the big stuff, like how to grow a podcast. Like the first thing

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    Kristina Barthold: for me is always guesting, like on other people's podcasts. Like I think one, it's like low hanging

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    Kristina Barthold: fruit because you have to do like things like this, like a swap and, um, get the opportunity

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    Kristina Barthold: to connect with somebody. And like, I have had so many of those partnerships that I've done

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    Kristina Barthold: turn into like referral partnerships, future clients, like really cool stuff. So, um, I've

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    Kristina Barthold: been really blessed with that and love that. So I would say, you know, guessing is number one.

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    Kristina Barthold: Number two, in terms of growth, I would say promotion, which is like a basic one, but I actually feel like

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    Kristina Barthold: people under promote their podcast. Me included, actually. The other day I was like, I don't think I've ever

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    Kristina Barthold: like in the last like probably six months,

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    Kristina Barthold: ever gone on a story and talked about a podcast episode being like, Hey, and I know that works

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    Kristina Barthold: when I'm like, Hey, I actually just recorded this awesome episode with my friend Kylie. And she just

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    Kristina Barthold: like, you know, spewed all the secrets about how to grow a podcast, you know, using a quiz or

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    Kristina Barthold: whatever. Like people are like, Oh, curious. I know that stuff works. And like, I still can't

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    Kristina Barthold: get myself to do it capacity wise, but I think, uh, we can't do it all, but yeah.

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    Kristina Barthold: So I would say really like under promoting it. And I would say, you know,

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    Kristina Barthold: moving in that direction of trying to grow it more and more, um, is having more touch points

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    Kristina Barthold: with it. Right. Where it's like showing up in a story, you know, doing a reel, maybe you do a

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    Kristina Barthold: carousel. Um, you do collaborative posts, you do lives, you go LinkedIn, like the threads has been

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    Kristina Barthold: awesome for growing podcasts. I love to answer questions people have about LinkedIn, especially

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    Kristina Barthold: with podcast episodes. Um, so that's been, that's been really great. And, um, it, which leads to

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    Kristina Barthold: another way that I've used it, which is an, an encourage other people to do it, to grow your

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    Kristina Barthold: podcast is I make a lot of my podcast topics about things that I would coach on normally or that I can

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    Kristina Barthold: like serve my clients. So it's really easy for if someone asks me a question and maybe I have a

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    Kristina Barthold: on like, you know, maybe the way I coach or maybe I'm not like, oh, I'm going to like spend hours and

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    Kristina Barthold: I was DMing with this person about LinkedIn. I'm like, here's an episode, check it. And usually that

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    Kristina Barthold: like, that can kind of scratch the itch for people. So that's always a good way to, to grow your podcast.

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    Kristina Barthold: one, because you can literally use it as a resource, send it, get downloads from that.

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    Kristina Barthold: But two, you know, whatever resource you're making, people are searching for.

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    Kristina Barthold: And so I've gotten really tight on titles, my team has, so that this way we're like, okay,

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    Kristina Barthold: would people actually ask that? Because before Kylie, all of our episodes were kind of like,

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    Kristina Barthold: chat with me.

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    Kristina Barthold: Really?

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    Kylee Chandler: And like, you know, you're not alone. It's okay. Okay.

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    Kylee Chandler: Can you see it?

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    Kristina Barthold: Wait, Kylie, reverse Uno.

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    Kristina Barthold: What do you think is the best way to grow a podcast?

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    Kylee Chandler: Oh, I mean, honestly, it's so in alignment with what you're saying, getting in front of other

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    Kylee Chandler: audience and it doesn't have to be on the podcast, but we know that if we go on another podcast,

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    Kylee Chandler: it's full of podcast listeners. So they'll easily come over. But even like when I've gone and,

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    Kylee Chandler: you know, Kathy Heller invited me to come into her community and I see a huge boost in new

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    Kylee Chandler: followers and things. So just like, or, or speaking at an event, like if you, Kristina,

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    Kylee Chandler: your speakers probably get a huge boost there. And so again, it all comes back to networking,

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    Kylee Chandler: but SEO, I'm all about SEO. It truly is such a sweet ticket that we can be doing without too much of a lift

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    Kylee Chandler: and it compounds over time. And that is why

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    Kylee Chandler: That is why Jenna Kutcher...

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    Kylee Chandler: can hang up her podcast and still get tons of downloads because she's got

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    Kylee Chandler: thousands of episodes that have these keywords in them, these SEO. So that's what I'm always like,

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    Kylee Chandler: hang in there. And we've gotten way better at it. People have gotten way better at titles because

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    Kylee Chandler: Same thing. Moms don't want to go and be like, okay, what is the chat with Kylie about? Like,

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    Kylee Chandler: I gave me the details so I know because I have 20 minutes and I don't want to be scrolling

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    Kylee Chandler: through a hundred episodes to find the one I want right now kind of thing.

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    Kristina Barthold: Well, even I laugh because it's like sometimes one of my podcasts will do like so well.

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    Kristina Barthold: And I'll say to my, like, our manager on our team, Ben, he's the best.

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    Kristina Barthold: But I go to Ben, I'll be like, Ben, like...

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    Kristina Barthold: why did I do that?

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    Kristina Barthold: Well,

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    Kristina Barthold: and he's like,

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    Kristina Barthold: I don't know if I accidentally click baited people with that.

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    Kristina Barthold: Like,

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    Kristina Barthold: he's like,

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    Kristina Barthold: the title was just really good.

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    Kristina Barthold: And I was like,

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    Kristina Barthold: okay,

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    Kristina Barthold: the content's good.

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    Kristina Barthold: The content is good too.

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    Kristina Barthold: But it's like,

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    Kristina Barthold: it's amazing how much of a difference it makes.

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    Kristina Barthold: And I'm even seeing two Kylie's today.

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    Kristina Barthold: I actually messaged our team and I was like,

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    Kristina Barthold: Why are these episodes from 2023 being downloaded?

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    Kristina Barthold: Like today.

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    Kristina Barthold: Like episodes that were recapping a business event I ran.

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    Kristina Barthold: Like, so I'm like, someone posted this somewhere.

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    Kristina Barthold: Someone, you know what I mean?

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    Kristina Barthold: There's something.

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    Kristina Barthold: So it's like, it's amazing.

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    Kristina Barthold: And like, I think it's just such an amazing, an amazing hack.

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    Kristina Barthold: And in terms of like long-term content, because we know from social, like it doesn't last long.

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    Kristina Barthold: And even like LinkedIn lasts a little better than Instagram, but a week.

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    Kristina Barthold: But podcasts, like, people download my podcast from years ago now still.

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    Kylee Chandler: Oh, I love it. Okay. So here's the one area I'm not actually super great at with podcasts and promoting is on social media. So what are you seeing work? Because I know that like the pulling the clip directly from it isn't always performing the best, but what are you seeing work for your clients for you?

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    Kristina Barthold: Yeah, a few things. One, I would say, one of the things I do see work pretty well is what I call

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    Kristina Barthold: a banger reel. My team hates when I call it that, but I will tell you what it is, which is like a

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    Kristina Barthold: mashup of like the conversation. That's like kind of like the diary of CEO style where you're not

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    Kristina Barthold: doing away too much, but you're creating like a little bit of FOMO and then pairing that with like

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    Kristina Barthold: a many chat so that people immediately can, I know people have mixed thoughts on many chats.

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    Kristina Barthold: I also have mixed thoughts on it, but it is a great engagement tool. Like you just like can't

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    Kristina Barthold: knock it. And it's like, I love it for being able to just get information to people quickly and get

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    Kristina Barthold: the resources they're looking for. So that's one. The other thing I've seen work pretty well is like

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    Kristina Barthold: carousels. So carousels are awesome because like really fundamentally, like it's keeping people in the

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    Kristina Barthold: app. So if you pair that with a mini chat, maybe it's like, you know, I chatted with a podcast SEO expert

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    Kristina Barthold: and here are the five things you wouldn't expect about podcast SEO. And then people could share it

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    Kristina Barthold: with each other. There's some like, kind of some juice there. Something that takes some thought work that I think I'm too lazy often to do. And so I'm just gonna put that out there that if you're like, can't do it, don't worry, me neither, is actually finding trends and building your content around,

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    Kristina Barthold: a trend. So, you know, if there's a trend out right now, like how can you tie your podcast

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    Kristina Barthold: into it and then make a many chat there? So this way it's like, Oh, um, you know, instead of it's

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    Kristina Barthold: like DM the word or like comment the word, whatever. And then I'll send you the link.

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    Kristina Barthold: Um, but you're getting kind of new people kind of hooked into it. Um, but success leaves clues.

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    Kristina Barthold: Like you have to see what works with your audience. Like for me, it's even like I email,

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    Kristina Barthold: um,

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    Kristina Barthold: works for my audience, like actually like in terms of sales, I would say Instagram stories work.

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    Kristina Barthold: My clips are fine. Like, you know, I think people, it's consistency. I think people see them. I think

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    Kristina Barthold: they know what to expect from them. Um, do they get watched? Yes. Probably as much as other things

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    Kristina Barthold: know. Um, but you just have to see really what your audience responds well to and then double

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    Kristina Barthold: down in those areas.

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    Kylee Chandler: I love, I love it. We were just talking about this in my mastermind. Do you do, do you do anything with Facebook?

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    Kristina Barthold: Like ads?

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    Kylee Chandler: No, like posting it on Facebook.

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    Kristina Barthold: Yes, but not probably to the extent you probably think.

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    Kylee Chandler: Oh, okay.

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    Kylee Chandler: No, that's okay.

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    Kylee Chandler: Because we had this big conversation about like exactly as you said, like figuring out

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    Kylee Chandler: people are like, should I be on Facebook still?

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    Kylee Chandler: You know, again, kind of test with your audience.

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    Kylee Chandler: You got to find out.

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    Kylee Chandler: So anyways.

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    Kylee Chandler: Yeah.

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    Kristina Barthold: Honestly, even like LinkedIn, I'm actually really surprised with LinkedIn because I've

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    Kristina Barthold: got a pretty good following over there.

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    Kristina Barthold: I think I'm like pretty close to 10 K and we have our social snippet page and have a

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    Kristina Barthold: women page and we're like posting things and there's content going out like literally 24

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    Kristina Barthold: 7 and it's great.

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    Kristina Barthold: I am always surprised how few people have ever said to me they found me on LinkedIn.

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    Kristina Barthold: Right.

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    Kristina Barthold: But the quality of the people that come are worth all the posting.

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    Kristina Barthold: So I might get two or three clients a year from it, but they're amazing clients, so I'm not going to stop.

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    Kristina Barthold: But then it's like, but I get better results from Instagram because it's more homey.

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    Kristina Barthold: It's like where I'm, where it's like my kind of my home space.

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    Kristina Barthold: So you really just have to see what works.

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    Kristina Barthold: I don't spend any time on TikTok.

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    Kristina Barthold: I repurpose email on my LinkedIn newsletter.

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    Kristina Barthold: So like you can get kind of creative,

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    Kristina Barthold: but you really just have to see where people are,

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    Kristina Barthold: are finding you.

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    Kristina Barthold: But I do find,

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    Kristina Barthold: I do get a lot of like upticks when I do like speak at live events or I

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    Kristina Barthold: actually do this thing,

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    Kristina Barthold: which I might be helpful for podcasters who are listening who,

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    Kristina Barthold: who also speak.

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    Kristina Barthold: Um,

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    Kristina Barthold: is I typically will record an episode about whatever it is that I talked about,

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    Kristina Barthold: and I release it on the day it came out.

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    Kristina Barthold: So, or at the day I'm speaking event.

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    Kristina Barthold: So I spoke at PodFast this year about how to use live events to grow your podcast.

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    Kristina Barthold: And I, that day, it was like a Saturday, I dropped a podcast episode and that was my call to action.

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    Kristina Barthold: Or like, you know, or I created a freebie or whatever.

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    Kristina Barthold: But, you know, there's lots and lots of things that you can do.

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    Kristina Barthold: But I think it's really about doubling down on what works for your audience.

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    Kylee Chandler: Oh, 100%. So good. Well, let's talk a little bit about

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    Kylee Chandler: what you have to offer your audience.

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    Kylee Chandler: And that is the high vibe women community.

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    Kylee Chandler: So what made you guys decide that it was time to launch something like this

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    Kylee Chandler: and what makes it stand out and different from other communities right now?

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    Kristina Barthold: Yeah.

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    Kristina Barthold: So it's so interesting. Obviously, not obviously, actually. I'm Canadian. I live in Canada. And so I'm like little American girl light over here because I go to the States all the time.

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    Kristina Barthold: So we were going to the U.S. all the time to grow our business.

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    Kristina Barthold: So we would go to events, masterminds, networking events.

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    Kristina Barthold: I still have many networks and communities in the U.S.

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    Kristina Barthold: And we'd come home and we'd be like, there's

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    Kristina Barthold: all these incredible Canadian women,

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    Kristina Barthold: None of them are gathering. We're not gathering. And so we started running these dinners. They

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    Kristina Barthold: were like super low key. We always joke that we like made $9 on the first one, but like didn't

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    Kristina Barthold: factor in our gas. Like, so it was like this whole thing, like it was never like a money-making

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    Kristina Barthold: scheme. And we just saw the power of bringing these women together. Like it was just, they'd

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    Kristina Barthold: sit down and it would be transformational. They would be doing these podcast swaps. They were

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    Kristina Barthold: doing business together. They were hiring each other. People would like leave those dinners and

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    Kristina Barthold: be like, I mean, 10 K, like it was just so normal. Like, and that's actually still the case. Like,

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    Kristina Barthold: you know, even now. And so

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    Kristina Barthold: We created High Vibe Women because we actually had a group of friends we called ourselves

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    Kristina Barthold: the High Vibe Women.

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    Kristina Barthold: And really the idea behind it was just like kind of this concept of feeling limitless

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    Kristina Barthold: in business.

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    Kristina Barthold: Like that like really anything was possible with like an amazing group of women.

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    Kristina Barthold: And so we continued to kind of meet.

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    Kristina Barthold: We started running larger scale events.

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    Kristina Barthold: First one was 80, then 120.

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    Kristina Barthold: And then now we're up to like 200, 225 twice a year.

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    Kristina Barthold: And then we have an online community that has over 100 members.

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    Kristina Barthold: And then we do pop-ups throughout the year at different cities, which I love.

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    Kristina Barthold: And so it's been really amazing.

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    Kristina Barthold: And Americans are so welcome.

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    Kristina Barthold: We have tons of American members and people come from the U.S., which I think is the best.

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    Kristina Barthold: And it's so funny because people will come from the U.S.

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    Kristina Barthold: and I'm always like, you guys have so much stuff.

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    Kristina Barthold: And I think that's the amazing part about it is that there is something so special about this group of women.

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    Kristina Barthold: Like, I have two people that come from California every time.

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    Kristina Barthold: Every time.

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    Kristina Barthold: And I'm like, it's so far.

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    Kristina Barthold: Like, it's okay if you have to miss one.

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    Kristina Barthold: And they're like, no, like, they're like, this is a very special group of women.

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    Kristina Barthold: And I think, um, very underserved, like in terms of, you know, what's possible for us

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    Kristina Barthold: and, um, or what's like been told that's what's possible for us.

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    Kristina Barthold: And I think there's just so much work to be done for women.

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    Kristina Barthold: all women, but especially I think as Canadians,

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    Kristina Barthold: is like with each other.

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    Kristina Barthold: So, yeah, they really just came from that.

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    Kristina Barthold: And our agency just grew so fast

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    Kristina Barthold: by growing our network, like, in the U.S.

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    Kristina Barthold: that we couldn't even imagine

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    Kristina Barthold: what it would be like to pour that back in at home.

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    Kristina Barthold: And it's been amazing to see, like,

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    Kristina Barthold: not only the results that we've gotten from it,

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    Kristina Barthold: because, of course, like, people come,

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    Kristina Barthold: they want to launch a podcast,

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    Kristina Barthold: or they have some social they want to do,

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    Kristina Barthold: and that's been amazing.

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    Kristina Barthold: But really, it's been the, like,

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    Kristina Barthold: oh my God, this has changed my life.

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    Kristina Barthold: I met my business, Bessie.

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    Kristina Barthold: I met someone I'm doing my business with,

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    Kristina Barthold: my new business with.

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    Kristina Barthold: I'm like, yeah.

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    Kristina Barthold: Like I left a toxic relationship

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    Kristina Barthold: and I didn't know that it was toxic.

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    Kristina Barthold: And like, just like really incredible stuff.

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    Kristina Barthold: So yeah, there's a lot of good stuff happening.

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    Kylee Chandler: Oh my gosh. That's so amazing. What, uh, what do you feel that the mat, the membership has taught you?

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    Kristina Barthold: So it's interesting, and I'll share this because I don't think I've ever talked about this on a podcast before, but

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    Kristina Barthold: We used to have another membership before that was called the Social Business Club.

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    Kristina Barthold: We had about 35 members in it for literally two years.

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    Kristina Barthold: Like, we could not scale this.

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    Kristina Barthold: And I was like, I...

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    Kristina Barthold: And the women would come to these calls and they would be like...

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    Kristina Barthold: And it was weird.

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    Kristina Barthold: We saw women all the time.

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    Kristina Barthold: Like, people were not converting.

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    Kristina Barthold: Like, we were like, don't you guys want to, like, learn social media stuff from us?

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    Kristina Barthold: Like, we would do templates every week.

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    Kristina Barthold: There would be, we'd send them trending sounds.

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    Kristina Barthold: We were, like, doing the most for this $37.

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    Kristina Barthold: Uh-huh.

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    Kristina Barthold: Okay?

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    Kristina Barthold: So, like, I was working for this $37.

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    Kristina Barthold: And we were on the verge when I had my baby, we were on the verge of just kind of being like,

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    Kristina Barthold: this is done. Like, honestly, we can't scale it. Memberships are dead. Like this is done.

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    Kristina Barthold: And, um, we went to the spa, like my six week of, I was done after my C-section. I'm finally

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    Kristina Barthold: allowed to go into a hot tub and we're sitting in the spa. And Maria had brought up the fact

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    Kristina Barthold: before. She's like, what if we converted this into a high five women membership? And I was like,

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    Kristina Barthold: no, because I had this uncan cost fallacy. Like I was like, we had put so much work into this other

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    Kristina Barthold: membership with 35 really engaged people.

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    Kristina Barthold: The people who came told us how incredible it was.

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    Kristina Barthold: They were always referring people.

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    Kristina Barthold: We had kind of like a bit of churn,

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    Kristina Barthold: but it wasn't crazy.

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    Kristina Barthold: We just couldn't attract new people.

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    Kristina Barthold: And...

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    Kristina Barthold: I was like, "Hey, I think we're doing too many things, and I think we should streamline this into a High Vibe Women membership."

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    Kristina Barthold: And Maria was like, "Yeah, I told you that, like, literally, last year."

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    Kristina Barthold: And we launched it and we have over a hundred members.

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    Kristina Barthold: It's always growing every day,

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    Kristina Barthold: which is amazing.

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    Kristina Barthold: And what really taught me one is you can't outwork a bad offer.

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    Kristina Barthold: Like if you don't,

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    Kristina Barthold: Like, if people don't want what you're selling...

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    Kristina Barthold: and you've tried the things, it's okay to be like, all right, this isn't it.

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    Kristina Barthold: And really just pivoting and seeing what works.

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    Kristina Barthold: And we actually relaunched it at double the price.

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    Kristina Barthold: And have almost four times the amount of the people.

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    Kristina Barthold: And we do way less work in it.

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    Kristina Barthold: So it's just amazing, but it was the offer just wasn't a match for people.

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    Kristina Barthold: Right.

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    Kristina Barthold: Yeah, it just wasn't a match.

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    Kristina Barthold: So that's really what it taught me.

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    Kristina Barthold: And then the other thing what it taught me is you really get what you give in a community.

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    Kristina Barthold: And I know this from being in my own communities.

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    Kristina Barthold: Like, that's how I grew my business.

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    Kristina Barthold: But seeing women who are in our community who get the most value...

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    Kristina Barthold: It actually has nothing to do with me and Maria.

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    Kristina Barthold: It's about showing up with calls.

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    Kristina Barthold: It's about pouring into other people.

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    Kristina Barthold: It's about asking questions.

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    Kristina Barthold: It's about, you know, like I'm just seeing them get huge return.

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    Kristina Barthold: So it's pretty incredible. That's pretty incredible. Um, but yeah, that's, that, those are kind of my highlights.

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    Uh,

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    Kylee Chandler: It's also great. And you know, that's, I'm so, you are so good at that. You are so good at

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    Kylee Chandler: prioritizing relationships and, um,

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    Kylee Chandler: I think that it's so refreshing to,

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    Kylee Chandler: in a world that's just can be so,

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    Kylee Chandler: like quick and

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    Kylee Chandler: just the long-term relationships are so special, especially as female entrepreneurs. And

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    Kylee Chandler: I feel so honored and grateful to, you know, cultivate this friendship with you and support

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    Kylee Chandler: you and Maria and just the importance of what you are all doing in Canada and in the U S. So

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    Kylee Chandler: thank you for being here. Thank you for sharing so much knowledge. I felt like we went in a few

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    Kylee Chandler: different directions, but maybe I was just like selfishly wanting to know all of the things from

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    Kylee Chandler: you, but I know my audience is going to love this. So thank you, Kristina. Where can they go to find

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    Kylee Chandler: out more about social snippet, high vibe women, like all of your podcasts, all the things.

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    Kristina Barthold: Yeah. Well, Kylie will be on my podcast shortly and I host the community podcast where I teach all

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    Kristina Barthold: things like networking events, marketing, growing your business, using community and social. So love

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    Kristina Barthold: to see over there. Any friend of Kylie's is a friend of mine. So feel free to DM me, let me know what

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    Kristina Barthold: you're going to try or what you're going to try or if anything kind of hit for you, I would love to

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    Kristina Barthold: here, but the best place would be on Instagram. Just come say hi. Um, I love connecting with people

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    Kristina Barthold: like, I think there's always just so much magic and my life's been changed by listening to podcasts.

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    Kristina Barthold: And so, um, whether it's this one or whatever podcast you're listening to, I think there's just so

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    Kristina Barthold: I can't wait to connect with people. So can't wait to connect with people.

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    Kristina Barthold: Yeah.

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    Kylee Chandler: Oh, thank you so much, Kristina.

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    Kristina Barthold: A pleasure.

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